Healing The Helper’s Paradox
course
Honour Yourself first, and watch the Magic flow in!
Prioritizing your needs isn’t selfish—it’s the key to showing up fully for your clients, your family, and the world.
As a Healer, it’s easy to focus on everyone else while neglecting your own needs. But here’s the truth: real change and growth begin by honouring your own needs first. When you do, you create the foundation to show up fully—for your clients, your loved ones, and yourself.
Do You Feel Stuck in Your Business While Supporting Everyone Else?
You’re a dedicated Healer, giving your all to your clients. But when it comes to growing your business and taking care of yourself, it feels impossible. You’re successful—but not thriving. You’re juggling responsibilities, lacking support, and stuck in survival mode.
It’s time to change that.
A Clear Path to Success in Your Healing Practice and Self-Worth
You don’t need to do this alone. I specialize in helping Healers like you break through blocks, reclaim their creativity, and build the thriving practice they deserve. Together, we’ll create a roadmap for growth that aligns with your values, your time, and your life.
How The Helper's Paradox Could Be Keeping You Stuck
The truth is, the usual approaches to growing your business as a Healer or Coach might not be working because they only skim the surface. They focus on buzzwords like “people-pleasing,” “compassion fatigue,” or “over-giving.” But these are just symptoms of a deeper issue: The Helper’s Paradox.
What is The Helper’s Paradox?
After working with over 800 helpers in 28 countries over the past 8 years, I’ve uncovered this core truth:
The more a person needs to help, the less able they are to truly help.
Did you catch that? It’s not just about your desire to help—it’s a need to help. A compulsion. And often, it comes at the expense of your well-being, creativity, and even your business.
The Helper’s Paradox keeps you:
Stuck in survival mode, juggling too much and feeling like it’s never enough.
Over-giving to clients while undervaluing yourself and your time.
Blocked creatively, with no energy left for your own needs.
Trapped in societal expectations that demand you sacrifice yourself to be a “good person.”
And staying stuck comes at a cost. If you don’t address The Helper’s Paradox, you risk:
Burnout from constantly over-giving.
Feeling undervalued, unseen, and drained.
Watching your business plateau, no matter how hard you work.
Sound familiar?
This mindset is the hidden reason so many helpers like you struggle to grow their businesses or maintain balance in their lives.
The Transformation You have been Searching For:
When you shift from a need to help to a mindset rooted in joy and alignment, everything changes.
You work with passion, not obligation.
Your business thrives, and so do you.
You have energy and time for your own growth, creativity, and happiness.
But HOW?
Recognizing The Helper’s Paradox is essential, but real change comes from using targeted energy healing to release patterns of over-giving, self-doubt, and overwhelm that keep you stuck.
Let me tell you a story …
I once had a client, let’s pretend her name is Susan.
Susan was a new Healer. She had no clients, 2 kids and felt obligated to take care of them and her husband. Both her kids were teen’s so although they needed her, they didn’t depend on her daily. She was doing some free sessions but they weren’t turning into paid clients. She was struggling to get her Healing Practice off the ground.
One of the first beliefs we identified for her was “It’s not safe to speak the truth.” Underneath this was a whole list of beliefs that took some time to unpack, and then clear at their energetic root.
“It’s my job to self-sacrifice to keep others comfortable."
“I have to be responsible for how others feel to avoid retaliation.”
“If they like me, I’m safe.”
“I must “fix” or rescue others to be valued.”
Whoa!
Once we identified these beliefs, and shifted them energetically, the magic started to flo.
She started taking new actions, seeing things differently, opening up more, and signing new clients. She now has a healthy part time practice and she’s set the foundation to grow to the next stage, and go full time.
She had been trying all the right business things in order to grow her business. Makes sense, right? You have a business problem, you take business courses.
Right?
Nope. Not for Healers.
Do Healers need good business strategy and skills? Yes. Absolutely yes.
But first comes The Helpers Paradox and addressing it’s impact in your life and business.
How It Works
This transformative journey combines emotional healing, practical tools, and a gentle yet empowering approach to guide you toward clarity, confidence, and inspired action. Here’s the simple three-step roadmap:
1. Discover Your Blocks
We’ll uncover the hidden beliefs, patterns, and energy blocks that have been holding you back. This isn’t just about identifying surface-level issues—it’s about deeply understanding the stories you’ve been living by and why they are no longer serving you.
My intuitive clarity and energetic perception allow me to pinpoint the core issues quickly, often articulating what you’ve felt but couldn’t put into words.
This step creates the foundation for lasting transformation by offering clarity where confusion once ruled.
2. Identify The Helper’s Paradox
We’ll dive into the subconscious need to help others at the expense of your well-being—what I call The Helper’s Paradox. This step challenges societal norms and ingrained beliefs about being a “good person” while freeing you from the mindset of obligation.
Together, we’ll explore your fears in a judgment-free space and transform them into empowering beliefs.
By clearing these energetic and emotional barriers, you’ll shift from over-giving to working with joy and alignment.
3. Transform Through Direct, No-Fluff Energy Healing
This is where insight meets action. Using practical tools and intuitive energy work, we’ll clear the exact beliefs that have kept you stuck. The result is real, tangible progress—not just emotional breakthroughs but practical steps you can implement immediately.
I help you translate these shifts into actionable strategies for your business and life. Whether it’s raising your rates, refining your offerings, or setting boundaries, you’ll gain the confidence to move forward.
This process balances spirituality and practicality, ensuring that your inner growth aligns with real-world success.
The Helper’s Paradox says:
The NEED to help, destroys your ability to help.
Why This Work is Different
What sets my approach apart is the way I integrate intuitive insight, energetic alignment, and actionable strategies:
Intuitive Clarity: I quickly identify blocks and patterns you might not even be aware of.
Compassionate Truth-Telling: I deliver the truth you need to hear with kindness, creating a space for profound transformation.
Bringing it All Together: I combine powerful energy work with practical strategies to help you turn internal breakthroughs into real-world progress. Together, we’ll ensure that the personal growth you experience leads to meaningful and lasting changes in your business and life.
Living True to Yourself: I help you reconnect with what truly matters to you, so you can build a business and life that feels fulfilling and aligned with your unique vision. This is about creating success in a way that feels right for you.
Through all of this I will guide you to align with your true self, creating a business and life that feels both joyful and sustainable.
Imagine What’s Possible on the other side of The Helpers Paradox:
A fully booked practice with 20 clients a week.
Increased fees without the fear of losing clients.
A sustainable schedule with time for yourself, creativity, and even that long-overdue holiday.
Many Healers have already made this shift, and I would love to see what is possible for you too.
What some of my clients say
“Since working with Wil my business has grown tremendously! In 6 months I have gone from giving most of my services away for free to having my own office with enough paying clients to cover all of my expenses. Since working with Wil my confidence, clarity and commitment has really improved. I know as we continue to work together I will only continue to grow and improve. Through our work I went from 0$ to roughly 1500$ monthly, having paid clients, having confidence to speak to clients about what I do. I appreciate all his work in assisting me be successful!”
-Shannon Curran
"Before working with Wil, I felt stuck and unsure about my next steps. In just one session, I gained clarity and support. Within weeks, I had new clients, raised my rates, and started upgrading my website. I’m finally feeling aligned with my goals and excited about my future."
-KC, Therapist with 10+ Years of Experience
A bit about me:
My name is Wil … and I am a spiritual bull shit detective. And I have fun doing it!
I have helped over 500 Healers across 28 countries over the past 5 years.
I work with healers who want to feel safe to be seen, especially online.
I help Healers, Coaches and Therapists get to a point where they are able to be themselves online without being ruled by the fear of criticism or judgment.
My clients describe me as being a “Human Polygraph”. Truth be told, they first said “Wil, you’re like a B.S. Detector!” But I softened it to “Human Polygraph” ‘for my official bio!
I have a spiritual gift called Claire-Audience which I use to identify and clear specific limiting beliefs.
I help clients see exactly where they have been subconsciously staying safe so that they can shift from overwork to ease and fun as they be more of themselves in their business
I have delivered my signature belief clearing session with 500 people in 28 countries, and honed a direct, honest and “No-fluff” approach to help clients end self sabotage and confusion.
My Deeper purpose:
Is to help others heal their relationship with God, (The God of their understanding), so that they can build their life + business on a solid foundation of faith, self love and spiritual confidence.
Start Your Transformation Today
You don’t need to keep struggling alone. Let’s create a thriving practice and a balanced life you love.
This is Your Time to Shine!
What You’ll Gain From Addressing The Helper’s Paradox
Break Free from Procrastination and Overwhelm
Uncover and release the hidden beliefs that have been holding you back. These deep-rooted patterns often create overwhelm, prevent key decisions, and keep you stuck in survival mode. After this work, you'll finally feel free to take inspired, meaningful action in your business.
Rediscover Joy and Confidence in Being Yourself
As you step out of The Helper’s Paradox, you’ll feel lighter, more natural, and at ease. When you show up as your true self, it becomes easier to attract the right clients, opportunities, and resources effortlessly.
Release Anxiety, Guilt, and Shame
Transform your mindset around the need to help. You’ll shift from a cycle of over-giving and burnout to one of balance, clarity, and purpose. This is your chance to create stronger boundaries and move forward without the weight of guilt or fear.
Here’s Exactly What You’ll Get
Live Coaching and Belief Clearing (90 Minutes on December 13th)
Jump into a live call where you’ll have the opportunity to sit in the "Hot Seat" for personalized coaching. In this session, you’ll:
Clear deep-seated beliefs that hold you back from thriving.
Develop stronger boundaries and leave behind people-pleasing habits.
Walk away feeling energized, focused, and ready to take bold steps forward.
The Helper’s Paradox Masterclass (Over 3 Hours)
Learn the principles of The Helper’s Paradox through a previously recorded intensive. You’ll:
Understand how this mindset keeps you stuck in unhealthy cycles.
Watch live demonstrations of belief-clearing techniques.
Gain tools to transform these limiting beliefs into empowering ones for your life and business.
8 Energy Healing Tools for Impostor Complex
Learn specific strategies to overcome feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy. These tools will help you stay confident and empowered, even when facing challenges in your practice or personal life.
PDF Cheat Sheet: The 8 Pillars of Impostor Complex
A quick-reference guide to help you manage procrastination and overwhelm. Keep this on hand to stay on track and aligned with your goals.
What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of this program, you will:
Feel empowered with actionable steps to approach your business and life with clarity and ease.
Have practical energy tools to handle feelings of overwhelm and obligation.
Experience a renewed sense of freedom, enabling you to grow your practice with joy, creativity, and abundance.
Questions?
Where is it held?
The course will be held on Zoom for your convenience, allowing you to join from anywhere.
When?
Friday, January 10th at 2PM EST. Please mark your calendars!
For the live Q+A Coaching Session, Wil will offer live energy healing for the entire group, or invite anyone who feels aligned to raise their hand for specific limiting belief clearing work. If you’re not ready to participate, that’s okay - you’re welcome to simply absorb the energy work happening live.
This is your time for live energy healing and personal growth—feel free to receive at your own pace.
Who is this for?
This course is ideal for:
Healers growing a practice
Therapists and Coaches
Other helping professionals who want to step into their gifts with more joy and less overwhelm
For this Healing The Helper’s Paradox course, the price is just $97—a one-time offer for this session. This price allows you to get started with the course and create the shifts you’re ready for in your healing journey and business.
I’m excited to have you join us!
Ready to break free from the Helper’s Paradox and step into a thriving healing practice?
This is your chance to break through the barriers that have been holding you back. This transformation is within your reach, and I can’t wait to go on this journey with you!
”As of my last session with Wil, something has released that I have carried for a long time. I was blocked and no matter what I did I could not release it. After our session, it has gone. The tightness, the limitation, has released!”
-Stephanie
”I’m living more from my true self; expanding my life and visibility”
-Frances Goodall - EFT Trainer, Coach, Therapist, Speaker and Author, Co-Founder of The Women’s Wellness Circle
“Wil Carlos is masterful at facilitating the release of hidden beliefs that keep you playing small. If you are ready to live your best life, then Wil is the person to work with.”
-Tomi Bryan, Coach, Consultant & Author of "What’s Your Superpower?”